Does anyone think i can make a comeback from my physical & mental burdens or am i done in ?

im 30 ive had a tortured life- ive made no relationships in life ever......have a criminal past.........been in a psychiatric hospital.....have a very low self esteem.....act clingy and desperate.....find it difficult to build up relationships in the present because of it..





ive made progress....still struggle with anger and rage....but made progress......i suffer with borderline personality disorder and post traumatic stess.......im waiting for therapy.....and working with the mental health services.





i dont have an employment history....suffered all my life...battled with ultimate torture.





physical is : i have torn ankle ligaments....waiting for an mri scan...cant walk on it properly .....need physiotherapy...or might need surgery...have flat feet and need insoles.....i can easily twist it on go falling over...the ankles very weak.





have cracked, broken skin on the head of my penis, waiting to see a dermatologist.





have painful bladder %26amp; frequent urination problems, waiting to see

Does anyone think i can make a comeback from my physical %26amp; mental burdens or am i done in ?
as they say, where there's a will, there's a way.
Reply:Of course you can overcome this lot in life!!!!!!!!


By your own admission, you have made progress.....


Keep in mind that recovery is a process that takes time.


I would suggest you visit your demons from the past and put them in their proper place......find out where they came from, forgive the people who helped create them, lose the victim persona, forgive yourself for the mistakes you've made and make a decision to live the rest of your life cleanly, honestly and with integrity. If you dont know what these mean today, dont worry, going through the process brings these character assets into focus.
Reply:There is no reason you cannot come back and make all your dreams come true. Stick with therapy for one to help you solve inner problems (which we all have). Also some self help books or books on CD's (or self help books on itunes) will help with personal issues too. Staying positive and focusing on what you want is also very important. I think you should first focus on your health and improving all your mental and physical problems because without your health you will not be happy. I also believe there is someone out there for everyone, but before you get into a relationship you should work on your anger and rage because sometimes people take it out on their significant other which would be a huge mess. Good luck to you and never give up on what you want in life.
Reply:You are finished if you don't stop the pity party fantome.





What you are doing is attention seeking catastrophysing your life. - yes you had a few set backs -we all do.





You are as you think. What does it matter what we think?





I'm sorry to be so blunt but nothing seems to get through your head. If you want things to change then change. I give you permission to be happy, I give you permission to be a success, I give you permission to be anything you want. HOw about you? Do you give yourself permission to have a life?



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